Hard Love Theory

Hard Love Theory is a channel about relationships, dating, marriage, and psychology. I create content for men and women who look for long-term relationships, and want actionable dating advice, relationship psychology insights, and marriage guidance from a serial monogamist who's had many relationships and several marriages, and learned the patterns that make them fail or succeed.

Here you’ll find videos on dating, marriage advice, mental health, therapy, and the psychology of attraction. I talk about red flags, toxic relationships, and the tools you need to build strong, lasting relationships in today’s world.

I blend data, logic, and evolutionary psychology with real-life experience. 

In 2025, I got married, lost my father, and became a father myself.

This inspired me to become the mentor for others that my father was for me, so I started Hard Love Theory: a space for young people who are struggling like never before.